Recipe No. 1 Melting Snow to Melting Hearts: A Cozy Guide to a First Date in Chicago
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Ingredients for Success:
Seduction
Laughter
Warm Food in a intimate space
Curated Playlist (optional)
With temperatures dropping in the Midwest, it’s the perfect time to plan a cozy, unforgettable date night. Imagine blending two of life’s greatest pleasures - laughter and delicious food - into one magical evening. Here’s how to do it right:
Step 1: Set the Scene with Comedy and Comfort Food
Invite your crush out for a night of laughs at a comedy show, followed by some comfort food or a sweet dessert.It takes a little preparation, but the last impression will be unforgettable.
Laughing is the perfect way to relax and it’s cuter than downing a few drinks to take that nervous edge off. Don’t get me wrong there’s nothing wrong with getting tipsy off a few glasses of wine with the intention of ho-ho-ho-ing it up but that’s not what I’m going for here. Who has the time to play guessing games the next day trying to decode if you meant what you said or if it was the alcohol talking? We are only here for that grown and sexy, real ass, crystal clear type of conversation. If you start the date with fun in a laugher-filled room, I guarantee it will be easier for communication to flow the rest of the night. Really, the perfect first date fore-play.
Step 2: Build Anticipation and Connection
One of the key elements of planning a romantic evening is anticipation.That’s all the flirting, talking and teasing that leads up to the date.While texting is convenient, nothing beats a good phone conversation to establish a deeper connection.True listening, total concentration on the other, is always a true manifestation of longevity. YOU CANNOT GET THAT THROUGH TEXT. The art of seduction takes time but daaaamn it is sexy and so fucking worth the journey.
Before the date, spark some fun dialogue about comedy.Ask your date who their favorite comedians are and why. Understanding someone’s sense of humor is a revealing detail and can give you insights into their personality.
Step 3:Prepare for the Night
Here’s your step-by-step guide to planning the perfect evening:
1.Invite and Set the Tone
Once you’ve extended the invite, let your date choose between meeting at the comedy club or getting picked up, set the mood with music, and score bonus points by showing up with a warm drink - coffee, tea, or hot chocolate.
2. Book the Show
Choose a show and buy your tickets in advance. Ive done the groundwork for you, so here are some great upcoming shows:
Zanies - Old Town
Desi Alexander, Thursday January 26, 2023 at 8:00 PM
Buy tickets here: chicago.zanies.com/show/desi-alexander
The Second City - Old Town
Swipe Right Fri 01/27, Thurs 2/2, Thurs 2/9, Tues 2/14 all at 8pm.
More show dates & tickets can be found here: www.secondcity.com/shows/chicago/the-second-city-swipes-right-an-incomplete-guide-to-the-ultimate-date-night/
3.Decide on Dinner or Dessert
Winter’s long nights call for strategic choices- pick spots that exude warmth and coziness. Pro tip:make reservations!.
Dinner options
French Onion Soup at Bistro Campagne ( $$)
4518 N Lincoln Ave, Chicago, IL 60625
A comforting bowl of French onion soup will keep the chill at bay. Or explore their pork belly appetizer and steak frites.
Fried Chicken & Biscuits at Split-Rail ($$)
2500 W Chicago Ave, Chicago, IL 60622
I’m a firm believer in the notion that a plate of fried food & carbs is a portal to perfect happiness.
Dessert Option
Truffle Toast at Kumiko
630 W Lake St, Chicago, IL 60661
A must-try dish, paired perfectly with a recommended drink from the bar.
4. Curate a Playlist
Create a playlist that matches the mood of the evening-something that flows effortlessly from start to finish.
Your Perfect Date Night Flow:
Picture this: Chicago dusted in show, glittering like a diamond. The city looks beautiful, and tonight it’s yours to explore.
Comedy Club: Start the evening with laughter - relax, have fun, and let the vibe set the tone.
Dinner or Dessert: Finish the night with an intimate meal or a sweet treat, gazing into each other’s eyes as the conversation and connection deepen.
Here’s to dating in more alignment with ourselves! Enjoy!
XJ